In Ross Rosenberg’s Self-Love Recovery Institute, you will find his life-changing educational, inspirational, and transformational books, psychotherapy, self-love recovery treatment, downloadable audio and video seminars, and other of his one-of-a-kind offerings.

If you are searching for a chance to overcome codependency, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, and various forms of trauma?

Do you want to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns so you can fully embrace the self-love abundance you deserve? If yes, take the opportunity to uncover the benefits of our website.

Do You Have Self-Love Deficit Disorder™?

"Self-Love Deficit Disorder™" or SLDD, is Ross Rosenberg's crucial reformulation of "codependency." Unlike its predecessor, SLDD neither implies emotional fragility nor weakness. Moreover, it identifies the formerly invisible core problems while integrating with Ross'sSelf-Love Recovery Treatment Program, AKA "The Codependency Cure™." With a term that makes sense, and treatment that works, there is hope for people the mental health fields seem to have forgotten.

Bestselling Seminars

Ross Rosenberg's groundbreaking and life-changing educational products are specifically designed to be engaging, profoundly meaningful, and practically helpful for both the general public and the seasoned professional. The Self-Love Recovery Institute is committed to the highest quality trainings that are informative, interesting, and clinically relevant.

Psychotherapy & Self-Love Recovery Treatment Program

Ross Rosenberg provides individual psychotherapy for those suffering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder/SLDD™ (codependency), as well as a variety of other mental health challenges. His revolutionary and highly effective mental health services include his “HITCH Trauma Integration Treatment Method”and his “11-Stage Self-Love Recovery Program,” AKA “The Codependency Cure™,” all of which lead the march forward to understand the problems better while creating highly impactful long-term solutions for codependency/SLDD.

Now accepting new clients!

Discounted Packages

Begin your journey to Self-Love Abundance with Ross's discounted video seminar packages!

If you plan to watch all of seminar videos, we offer the Complete Collection Package. It is 40% off and includes all of Ross's video seminars and a personally autographed copy of Ross' book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap.

The Human Magnet Syndrome:
The Codependent Narcissist Trap

Over 185,000 Copies Sold. Published In 12 Languages.

The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap explains why people are magnetically and irresistibly drawn together, not so much by what they see, feel and think, but more by invisible unconscious relationship force. It explains relational “chemistry” and why its irresistibly alluring and seductive “love force” is impossible to avoid. Codependents and pathological narcissists simply cannot avoid HMS’s inevitable dysfunctional opposite match-up. What starts off as the codependent’s dream “soul mate” almost always transforms into their nightmare “cellmate.”

Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC

Psychotherapist, Author, Self-Love Recovery Institute CEO

Ross Rosenberg is Self-Love Recovery Institute's primary content creator. He is an expert psychotherapist, best-selling author, and expert witness. Ross is known globally for his expertise in codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma Treatment.

His global impact is best illustrated by his “The Human Magnet Syndrome” books, which have sold over 185,000 copies in 12 languages, and his YouTube channel, with over 28 million video views and 285K subscribers. In addition, Ross has been featured on national TV and is a regular radio and podcast guest.

The Self-Love Recovery Podcast

Ross Rosenberg and The Self-Love Recovery Institute are excited to announce The Self-Love Recovery Podcast!

Expect to be educated, informed, and inspired to heal from Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency) and Narcissistic Abuse like never before! The Self-Love Recovery Podcast will feature Ross's groundbreaking information contained in his YouTube videos, along with other life-changing original content.

Available now on all major podcast platforms!

The Observe Don't Absorb Technique©

The Observe Don’t Absorb Technique (ODA) provides a person who is manipulated and/or harmed by an individual who derives power and control through the use of emotional domination, the capacity to set successful boundaries with Pathological Narcissists (NPD, BPD, ASPD and addicts), and survive the backlash, with a variety of insights, strategies, and tools.

Through the use of this powerfully effective defense technique, survivors of Narcissistic Abuse are educated on how to “fight back” with the most potent weapon of all: purposeful, mindful, and conscious dissociation. By allowing narcissists to trigger or activate them emotionally, they are helplessly pulled into a fight in which they believe they can win, but never do.