Pathological Narcissism Set (25% Off)

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  1. Pathological Narcissists: Who They Are & What to Do About Them + The Observe Don't Absorb Technique
  2. Gaslighting Is Everywhere! How and Why Pathological Narcissists Brainwash Others
  3. Escaping Narcissistic Abuse - Stages 4 and 5
  4. Protect Yourself from Narcissistic Abuse
  5. Narcissism Experts Talk about the Complexities of Pathological Narcissism: Ross Rosenberg and Wendy Behary

Total time: 18 hours.


Not only did Ross Rosenberg’s “Human Magnet Syndrome” work redefine what we know about codependency or Self-Love Deficit Disorder, it similarly was a watershed moment for the understanding of narcissism. Ross explains the clinical definitions of what he terms “Pathological Narcissism.”  In other words, he explains in detail what is Narcissistic, Borderline and Antisocial Personality Disorders, but re-conceptualizes them to fit his Human Magnet Syndrome work.

To explain the relationship dynamics driven by “The Human Magnet Syndrome,” Ross needed to update definitions and psychological theories/explanations of the inner mechanics of “Pathological Narcissism.” Because his book’s thesis was not about the “bad” perpetrating narcissist, or the “good” victim codependent, but the conscious choices and inner motivations of both, new and updated information was required to explain Pathological Narcissists.

  1. Pathological Narcissists (6 hours)

In this video Ross deconstructs, redefines, and re-conceptualizes the Pathological Narcissistic Disorders. He explains how and why Pathological Narcissists manipulate, control, and dominate others. In addition, he demonstrates how to neutralize narcissistic abuse using his Observe Don't Absorb Technique. Some of the material presented:

  • The Continuum of Narcissism
  • The Human Magnet Syndrome’s explanations
  • Borderline, Narcissistic & Antisocial Personality Disorders
  • Covert & Malignant Narcissism
  • Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome
  • Gaslighting
  • Stockholm Syndrome
  • Attachment Trauma and the Development of NPD
  • Narcissism in Politics
  • Hoovering - Breaking the Codependent's No Contact Efforts
  • Narcissism in Old Age (and Dying)
  • Narcissistic Injury
  • The Observe Don't Absorb Technique

2. Gaslighting is Everywhere! (4 hours)

Gaslighting is a complex and well-thought-out brainwashing strategy utilized by highly manipulative narcissists. Gaslighters control victims by systematically manipulating them into identifying with and feeling no control over an implanted psychological problem. The resulting distress, insecurity and paranoia creates even lower self-esteem and feelings of hopelessness and powerlessness, while compelling them to isolate even further and seek protection from the gaslighter. They are, therefore, trapped in a double bind from which it is difficult to escape. Some of the material presented:

  • Gaslighters are Pathological Narcissists
  • Sociopathy & Gaslighting
  • Gaslighting & Brainwashing
  • The Stockholm Syndrome
  • The Gaslighter's Methodology
  • Systematic Isolation & Paranoia Induction
  • The Gaslighter's Double Bind
  • Gaslighter Personality Types
  • How Gaslighters Groom their Victims
  • Gaslighting in Movies & Popular Culture
  • Narratives Are the Stories That Define Us: The 4 Gaslighting Narratives
  • Attacking the Accuser/Focus Shifting
  • The Invisible Fence/Shock Collar Phenomenon
  • False IQ Comparison’s
  • Gaslighting in Politics
  • Gaslighting and Attachment Trauma
  • Breaking Free from Gaslighting

3. Escaping Narcissistic Abuse - Stages 4 and 5 (5.5 Hours)

Stage 4, Preparing for the Narcissistic Storm, includes the basics of how codependents and narcissists interact; the common manipulation, power dynamics, and mind control strategies that narcissists use, and information on how you can expect your narcissist will react to strategically set boundaries. It also includes practical tools that are necessary to neutralize engagement strategies used by narcissists. Some of the material presented:

  • Developing “Predictive Awareness”
  • False Power Syndrome
  • Induced Conversation
  • Worst-Case Scenario Exercise
  • Cost-Benefit Exercise
  • Secretly building resources
  • Dismantling triangulation
  • Avoiding narcissistic injuries
  • Grey Rock Technique doesn’t work
  • Gaslighting and Stockholm Syndrome
  • The dangers of marriage/couples counseling and mediation

Stage 5, Setting Boundaries in a Hostile Environment, is when the carefully constructed exit plan is executed. Everything is about escaping with minimal harm from the Pathological Narcissist’s campaign of terror, threats, and abuse. Some of the material presented:

  • Ross’s “Surgeon General Warning"
  • The Three Strike Boundary Rule
  • Setting boundaries in a hostile environment
  • Boundaries for narcissists do not work
  • Preparing for Retaliation
  • Roller Coaster Amnesia
  • Breaking the secrecy rule
  • The “Humanizing” trick
  • Hoovering and its various “masks”

4. Protection from The Narcissistic Storm (1.75 hours)

In this seminar, Ross focuses on elements of his "Preparing for The Narcissistic Storm" work – Stage 4 of his Self-Love Recovery Program. Ross gives practical direction and explanations about setting boundaries with Pathological Narcissists. Some of the material presented:

  • Expectations management
  • The importance of un-isolating yourself
  • Demystify banking, investments, bills, etc.
  • Finding a good attorney
  • Avoid mediation
  • Developing radar/ability to discern friend from foe
  • Managing narc’s induced conversation
  • Using the observe don’t absorb technique
  • The Three-Strike Boundary Rule
  • Conditioning narc’s can work enough
  • Sex/intimacy prohibition
  • Ross’s “Surgeon’s General Warning

5. Narcissism Experts Talk about the Complexities of Pathological Narcissism (1 hour)

Two international experts on narcissism and narcissistic abuse, Ross Rosenberg, and Wendy Behary, passionately share their thoughts about the spread of narcissism in our culture and society.  They compare their treatment methods and theoretical understandings on Narcissism and Narcissistic abuse.  Wendy Behary, LCSW the author of “Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed,” which has sold 250,000 copies and translated into 10 languages.  She has a specialty in treating narcissists and the people who live with and deal with them.