Pathological Narcissism Set (25% Off) (USB)

Pathological Narcissism Set (25% Off) (USB)

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  1. Pathological Narcissists + The Observe Don't Absorb Technique
  2. Gaslighting Is Everywhere! 
  3. Escaping Narcissistic Abuse
  4. Protect Yourself from Narcissistic Abuse
  5. Narcissism Experts Talk about Pathological Narcissism

Total time: 18 hrs.


Ross explains the clinical definitions of what he terms “Pathological Narcissism," what is Narcissistic, Borderline and Antisocial Personality Disorders, but re-conceptualizes them to fit his Human Magnet Syndrome work.

Because his book’s thesis was not about the “bad” perpetrating narcissist, or the “good” victim codependent, but the choices and inner motivations of both.

  1. Pathological Narcissists (6 hrs.)

Ross redefines Pathological Narcissistic Disorders. He explains how and why Pathological Narcissists manipulate and control others. In addition, he demonstrates how to neutralize narcissistic abuse using his Observe Don't Absorb Technique. Some of the material presented:

  • The Continuum of Narcissism
  • Borderline, Narcissistic & Antisocial Personality Disorders
  • Covert & Malignant Narcissism
  • Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome
  • Gaslighting
  • Attachment Trauma and Development of NPD
  • Narcissism in Politics
  • Hoovering Breaking No Contact Efforts
  • Narcissism in Old Age / Dying
  • Narcissistic Injury
  • ODA Technique

2. Gaslighting is Everywhere! (4 hrs.)

Gaslighting is a well-thought-out brainwashing strategy utilized by manipulative narcissists. Gaslighters control victims by manipulating them into identifying with and feeling no control over an implanted psychological problem. The resulting insecurity and paranoia creates low self-esteem and feelings of hopelessness, while compelling them to isolate. They are trapped in a double bind from which it is difficult to escape. Some of the material presented:

  • Gaslighters are Pathological Narcissists
  • Sociopathy & Gaslighting
  • Brainwashing
  • Stockholm Syndrome
  • Gaslighter's Methodology
  • Systematic Isolation & Paranoia Induction
  • Gaslighter's Double Bind
  • Gaslighter Personality Types
  • Gaslighters Groom their Victims
  • Gaslighting in Movies & Popular Culture
  • Narratives Are the Stories That Define Us: 4 Gaslighting Narratives
  • Attacking the Accuser/Focus Shifting
  • The Invisible Fence/Shock Collar Phenomenon
  • False IQ Comparisons
  • The Holy Church of The Gaslighter
  • Gaslighting in Politics
  • Gaslighting & Attachment Trauma
  • Break Free from Gaslighting

3. Escaping Narcissistic Abuse (5.5 Hrs.)

Stage 4, Preparing for the Narcissistic Storm, includes the basics of how codependents and narcissists interact; the common manipulation, power dynamics, and mind control strategies that narcissists use, and information on how you can expect your narcissist will react to set boundaries. It also includes practical tools that are necessary to neutralize engagement strategies used by narcissists. Some of the material presented:

  • Developing “Predictive Awareness
  • False Power Syndrome
  • Induced Conversation
  • Worst-Case Scenario Exercise
  • Cost-Benefit Exercise
  • Secretly building resources
  • Dismantling triangulation
  • Avoiding narcissistic injuries
  • Grey Rock Technique doesn’t work
  • Dangers of marriage/couples counseling/mediation

Stage 5, Setting Boundaries in a Hostile Environment, is when the carefully constructed exit plan is executed. Everything is about escaping with minimal harm from the Pathological Narcissist’s campaign of threats and abuse. Some of the material presented:

  • Ross’s “Surgeon General Warning
  • The Three Strike Boundary Rule
  • Boundaries for narcissists do not work
  • Preparing for Retaliation
  • Roller Coaster Amnesia
  • Breaking the secrecy rule
  • The “Humanizing” trick
  • Hoovering and its various “masks”

4. Protection from The Narcissistic Storm (1.75 hours)

Ross focuses on elements of Stage 4, Preparing for The Narcissistic Storm. He gives practical direction and explanations about setting boundaries with narcissists. Some of the material presented:

  • Expectations management
  • The importance of un-isolating yourself
  • Demystify banking, investments, bills, etc.
  • Finding a good attorney
  • Avoid mediation
  • Radar to discern friend from foe
  • Managing narc’s induced conversation
  • Observe don’t absorb technique
  • The Three-Strike Boundary Rule
  • Conditioning narc’s can work enough
  • Sex/intimacy prohibition

5. Narcissism Experts Talk about Pathological Narcissism (1 hr.)

Two international experts on narcissism, Ross Rosenberg & Wendy Behary, passionately share their thoughts about the spread of narcissism in our culture and society. They compare their treatment methods and theoretical understandings on Narcissism and Narcissistic abuse. Wendy Behary, LCSW the author of “Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed,” which has sold 250k copies and translated into 10 languages. She has a specialty in treating narcissists and the people who live with and deal with them.